Pilgrimage

SPIRITUAL PILGRIMAGE: COLLECTING TREASURES

When we leave home and begin our journey to the sacred future, we discover that we have to grieve the loss of home and open ourselves to a world where we can't rely as much on the way things were done at home as we have to rely on strangers to help us find our way. Thus we discover strangers who help reveal new dimensions of ourselves to our own self-understanding.

But, when we are out on the road to that unknown future, we also have the opportunity to discover some internal strengths that we didn't know we had. When I was in an important transition in my life and the familiar people and roles were not available to me, I had to try to survive in new ways. Before the changes occurred in my life, roughing it was staying in a Motel 6 rather than a Holiday Inn. But, as I was making my way around the country discovering my new sense of self, I traveled with a tent and a cook stove. I learned to sleep on the beach under the stars and cook a great cup of coffee over a fire.

In traveling outside my familiar spaces, I discovered that I had not only the capacity to survive on much less, but that I liked the feeling of strength and freedom which that discovery offered. In the wilderness of the soul, I discovered treasures within my own make-up that I had never seen before. The familiar things that I had surrounded myself with had insulated me not only from having to adapt to the discomfort of traveling light, but also insulated me from the treasures within myself that I discovered in the discomfort.

So, as you journey through life and occasionally leave home, or when home somehow leaves you out in the cold, see what you might pick up on the road. See what strengths you might have that you never knew you had. Those discoveries can enrich your life when you return home. They can enable you to live with less fear because you know strengths you may not have known before.

SPIRITUAL PILGRIMAGE: WELCOME STRANGERS

Our journey into our souls is often intensified when we leave home or home leaves us. This soulful journey is a spiritual pilgrimage. It is a time when our senses are heightened and we are more conscious of the life we are living than we are many ordinary days of our lives.

When we leave home and enter strange and unknown lands, we become conscious of how strange everything and everyone is.  At home we see more people we know. On a journey away from home, we find our days filled with more people we don't know.  The people in the bus next to us, the people in the restaurant where we eat, the person who checks our passport, the cab driver who takes us to our hotel. These are people who live life in a different world.

But, when we are in unfamiliar places, we often also find strangers within. We discover impulses and desires that might not be noticed when we are in our familiar pattern of daily life. When we break the pattern of work and home, of routine and ritual, we glimpse other parts of ourselves. 

Strangers, without or within, can be insightful companions in our pilgrimage of soulful discovery. They see us differently than do those familiar with us. They do not need us to be what our family needs us to be. In seeing us with new eyes, they reflect newness back to us. We see ourselves with new eyes as we are reflected in the eyes of strangers.

This is why the Jewish/Christian faith has a strong directive to welcome strangers. We welcome them first because others have welcomed us when we were strangers. It is the hospitable thing to do. But, it is also good for our discovering our deeper selves.  Strangers give us eyes to see ourselves differently and maybe more completely. A spiritual pilgrimage opens us up to our fuller selves and gives us a broader perception of our rich and complex personalities.

Be open to the strangers you meet. The world could be a better place when we show hospitality. But, we could also gain deeper insights to ourselves as well.